falls along my ascendant/descendant I feel like i have sympathy for his struggle and something to learn as I'm kinda in the same boat. Even though it's super rough and the opp. I've been thinking lately about what kind of thing happens when two people have hard Mars Saturn aspects natally but no interchart aspects between the two. I wouldn't trust him to be in control of a toy truck - let alone *our* relationship. Well I had no trust whatsoever in this schmuck and no desire to be submissive at all! My Mars is conjunct Neptune and I am actually pretty submissive in general on a romantic/sexual level.īut I'm only like this with the right people (*cough* Scorpio Mars *cough*) - you know. That being said, a more spiritually evolved, kind hearted person - with the same Saturn placement - might've been good for me. Saturn is passive-aggressive instead.īut they always seem to be plotting against each other - because there is so much friction. The Mars person attacks the other in an overt way. Very initially I was attracted, but things turned very negative between us with both of us being hyper-critical of each other. I really just can't stand him on any level. My Mars is in Capricorn and his Saturn was exactly conjunct it. I'm more chilled, but I indulge him whenever he asks for it lol. It's mostly on his part though, because it's in his personality to be (subtly) challenging and mischievous - so he likes to poke at me n my mind n likes seeing me 'riled up'. The aspects manifest as a bit of friendly rivalry between us. Though I can't remember if it's one of the aspects that often show up. His mars trine my saturn, my mars oppose his. What about Mars sextile Saturn in composite? I can very much imagine the smooth Mars-Saturn aspects being supportive for a more lasting union, if even this square-opposition combo kept me and my ex together for a while But I've never had an easy Mars-Saturn aspect with anyone that I've been in a romantic relationship with, so I can't say I'd like to think that in a flowing aspect, Mars and Saturn agree with each other and value the same things, rather than have to fight to find common ground. I know I rebelled against my ex's demands for me and he persisted with his showmanship, maybe he thought that deep inside I considered those things endearing even though I told him he was being childish. I think Mars can be connected to our humor and vitality, and how we get things done, so it's important that our planets sympathize with each other. I still loved him when we broke up, although it was mutual and we both knew it was for the best since all we did was fight and bicker, and we no longer felt connected.

Then sometimes, he'd take the Saturnian role and complain that I was reckless with money and didn't help enough with housework (that may have been the truth, my Mars is in Pisces ) and he wanted me to live a very specific kind of life and that I shared his exact same values.īut we were very young when we got together (I was 19, he was 21) and during those 5 years we both grew a lot, and apart from each other. Initially I thought it was funny, but over time it became old and I reprimanded him. My ex had his Mars in Gemini, so he liked to show off his skills and achievements and he was a bit of a comedian, too. The way we had it, we would switch the roles. I remember reading on Cafe Astrology that with these aspects, Saturn will eventually see Mars as childish, and try to get Mars to be 'properly' - and Mars will try to rebel.

My ex and I were together for nearly 5 years and we had Mars square Saturn and Mars opposite Saturn, so it was a double whammy. I find the aspect of Mars/Saturn in synastry to be very interesting. Why is it though? I mean does it make Mars submit to Saturn? Especially when it's a women's mars to a man's saturn? All of the people married in my family have this aspect with each other! It's no coincidence! It really is true when they say that is a common aspect in marriages. What do you guys think about Mars/Saturn in synastry? Mars/Saturn in synastry? - Lindaland Welcome, Knowflakes, to Lindaland! ()

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